Friendship is a relationship with someone who cares about you, gives you advice, stands next to you in the hardest time or even the good one. A friend is someone who makes you up when you’re down, who’ll wipe up your tears when you cry, who will fight away all your fears when you scream,a friend is someone who has a lot of responsibilities taking good care of himself and for the other one.
Even friendship is complicated, we learn through it a lot of things:How to be patient/How to accept differences/How to deal with people…as Muhammad Ali once said “Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.”
Even though,sometimes we make mistakes and we hurt the other people, so how can we make a good relationship with the others?
1-be selective :there is different kind of people, so choose the one who can understand you, who has the same principles as you, but don’t wait for him or her to be perfect, because we are all human being, we make mistakes so just forget AND forgive as J STRELOU said :“we fall in love with people’s flaws;the perfect person would be impossible to love”.
2-take your time to choose your friend :don’t be that thirsty to friendship, don’t follow anyone around or beg someone to be your friend, get to know the other part first, be yourself,don’t try to make you a person who you aren’t so just be simple, friendly,spontaneous.
3-take the first action to know the other people more:when we were young making friends was really easy but now,older and older we don’t know even how to start a conversation so why we have been like that ? The truth is :we have to be as Rasheed Ogunlaru :“Be genuinely interested in everyone you meet and everyone you meet will be genuinely interested in you”.
4-be patient: not just in friendship but in all kinds of relationships, it is okay if you go through bad experience, but don’t forget that you have learned from it, we build our personalities from the bad experiences that we have been through, so be thankful to every person in your life who have stayed or left.
I always heard that when you want to achieve your dream you can go faster alone but with a true friend you can go further.A true find can add a meaning to your life,can let you know what you really want and deserve…❤