As human being, we pass through hard times, those times when we can’t even breath, talk or smile and seeing the beauty in the pain seems hard to believe. It comes time when we are looking for meaning of life, for good in the bad, for happiness inside of the darkness, for a smile in a sad face, for love inside of a hateful heart and for beauty in others.
We are as everyone is, going through hardships, but what we can’t understand is that from it we become stronger, believer, courageous, and full of hope, hope that everything is going to be okay and with the hardship, there is relief.
We may not know what others are facing, it is easy to judge people and people to judge us. However, we don’t know how much struggles this person is going through, We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, but very good judges for the mistakes of others.
Instead of waiting the others failure or making them feel weak, look at yourself and ask if this is the life that you have been looking for, being the bad person is not the solution of your struggles because no one will take your place in life and no one could ,because you and i and them are special, what counts is that if you are going to make a difference in your life, because changes and self awareness and self-acceptance start by knowing what we truly want. You don’t need to deal with hardships but to accept it as everything else, since we are alive, it will be always ups and downs, good and bad, hate and love, darkness and light ….